Everyone should be a better kisser, lets review some basic kissing principles that should always be incorporated into your kissing strategy.
Be A Better Kisser – Slow, then turn up the heat
It is always very tempting to rush the first kiss. Launching into (what you might believe to be) a passionate melting liplock, can end up scaring your partner. Overly eager kissing from the starting gate is a set-up for disaster.
Start slow, and gently build up the heat. The flames will ignite anywhere from a few minutes to half an hour. This all depends on your moods.
First lips, then tongue
Keep your lips relaxed and slightly parted as they contact your partner’s. Don’t immediately dart your tongue into her mouth. First let your tongue gently brush against her lips and wait for her to yield for more. If she responds by touching your tongue with hers, consider that an invitation to enter, Keep your tongue flexible and responsive; don’t stiffen it to a point, but don’t let it go completely flaccid either.
Leave breathing room
Make sure you don’t block your partner’s airways. Avoid getting in a position where your noses are shmushed, and come up occasionally for air. Also, don’t forget to breathe while you’re kissing; you can inhale and exhale discreetly through your nose even while joined at the lips.
Give and take
The best kissing is back and forth, you call and she responds vice versa. Try something and see if she responds positively with her mouth. Be open to letting her lead – she will show you exactly how she wants to be kissed.
Use just enough saliva
Moisten your tongue and lips with just enough saliva to keep things slippery and lubricated. Your lips slide easily against your partner’s. No one enjoys kisses that are either dry or sloppy.
Nibbling or a gentle tug on your partners lip can be quite tantalizing. Take your partner’s lower lip between your lips and gently suck it in between your open teeth. Then use your teeth to apply a very mall amount of pressure on her lip. The key is to be gently, especially with the tug.
Use your hands
Always use your hands to touch your partner, hands are an awesome compliment to any kiss. Too often, then hands are left out of the scenario. Caress her face, her ears, the back of her neck, and her hair. This is very romantic. Depending on the response you receive, you may choose to do more. Proceed ever so slowly as you explore other areas.
Less can be more
The most intimate moments in kissing come when your lips are barely touching your partner’s. Try it. Pull back for a few seconds, take a moment, look into her eyes as you lightly brush your lips against hers. It is difficult to get this type of kiss wrong.
Be A Better Kisser -Stay focused
Many guys think of kissing as the prelude to heavier making out or sex. It certainly can be, but while you’re kissing, you have to stay focused on the moment. She will know if your mind is wandering or you’re trying to figure out to how to get her bra undone. Think of the kiss as an end in itself, not an avenue to her underwear.
Be A Better Kisser – Use your mouth to seduce
Use your lips and your tongue to leave your lover wanting more. Most women will judge your kiss as your potential to be a lover. Be sensitive to her needs, passionate with your lips, smooth and gentle with your hands and your on your way to a Casanova.Sloppy. Rushed kissing and sloppy lips equals a dud. Demonstrate your prowess in mouth-to-mouth contact alone, she’ll be leading you to the bedroom in no time.
These simple tips will definitely help you to be a better kisser.